Relationships
Everything we have written on Relationships, in one place.

Complicated Grief / Prolonged Grief Disorder
Prolonged grief disorder made it into the DSM-5-TR (the most current version of the psychiatric diagnostic manual) in 2022, and the diagnosis is useful…
May 17, 2025
You mad, bro?
A lot of guys think anger is the problem because anger is the part everybody sees...
May 11, 2025
PMDD (for the partners who live with it)
This one's for the husbands, because most of the guys who come in with a wife who has PMDD (premenstrual dysphoric disorder, the severe, predictable mood…
May 11, 2025
Loneliness as diagnosable risk factor
Loneliness isn't a DSM diagnosis and nobody's going to pretend it is, but it functions like one in terms of risk, and the data on it for middle-aged men…
May 3, 2025
Narcissist diagnosis misused: clinical reality
The word narcissist has been so thoroughly hijacked by TikTok and pop psychology that you can't use it in a clinical conversation anymore without first…
May 1, 2025
The Real Reason You Keep Self-Sabotaging
People sabotage themselves constantly and they can't tell you why. Get within sight of something working out and they blow it up.
Apr 30, 2025
The Playlist Changed. So Did We.
There's probably a song you still know by heart that taught you something about love before you were old enough to question it. Not in some dramatic way.
Apr 16, 2025
Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)
GAD (generalized anxiety disorder, the diagnosis given to chronic free-floating worry that isn't attached to one specific thing) is the kind of anxiety…
Feb 9, 2025
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
DBT (dialectical behavior therapy, the skills-and-group approach that came out of Marsha Linehan's lab in the 1980s) got invented to treat patients with…
Feb 6, 2025